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Change your story

Understand Yourself, Heal your Inner Pain & Live Self-led Life.

How will you know if therapy is for you?

Do you feel trapped in a cycle of negative emotions and thoughts? IS IT DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO FEEL JOY, POSITIVITY, AND LOVE?

Maybe you struggle with a persistent belief that you're not good enough. You often don't believe in yourself, have low self-esteem or are sELF-critical.

In a relationship, do you often feel overwhelmed, suffocated by the other person and lose yourself, or on the contrary, do you feel a strong need and dependence on the other person and are you often afraid of losing them?

Is it very easy for you to care for others, but not so much for yourself? Do you often feel exhausted and angry because of this?

YOU MAY FEEL STUCK IN LIFE. OFTEN indecisive OR FIGHTING BETWEEN TWO POLES. ONE PART OF YOU HAS A STRONG MOTIVATION TO GO IN ONE DIRECTION, BUT THE OTHER IS CONSTANTLY PULLING YOU BACK.

YOU OFTEN FIND RELIEF IN ADDICTIONS SUCH AS SMOKING, DRINKING, GAMBLING, SHOPPING, OVEREATING, WEB SURFING, or PORN.

Do you often feel headache, fatigue, indigestion, or chronic pain?

IS IT FOR YOU DIFFICULT TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS? WILL THEY TAKE COMPLETE CONTROL OF YOU?

DO YOU OFTEN HAVE TOO HIGH OR EVEN UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS OF YOURSELF AND OTHERS, CAUSING YOU SELF-CRITICAL BEHAVIOR, ANXIETY, AND FEAR OF FAILURE?

DO YOU HAVE PROBLEMS SLEEPING AND FALLING Asleep, CAUSED BY AN ACTIVE MIND, WORRY, OR ANXIETY? MAYBE REPEATED NIGHTMARES OR UNWELCOME AND DISTURBING IMAGINATIONS?

Is it difficult for you to feel and show emotions? Maybe meet new people or be interested in dating and new experiences?

Is it difficult for you to express your needs and feelings and give your opinion? Do you often suppress your negative emotions?

how will the session look like?

meeting yourself

By using meditation and connecting with yourself, we will make contact with the part of you that needs the most attention in your life at this moment. Whether it's fear, doubt, anger, addition or anything else. By connecting with this part, we find its understanding, and through compassion and love, this part transforms and reveals the pain it is protecting. We will find understanding of the part and ourselves.

Every extreme part within us protects the inner pain/hurt or our inner child in pain. After mutual understanding and trust, we get permission from our inner system (from our parts) to make contact with the pain. This process is very safe and has its time when we are internally ready, the wounded part releases its pain, takes on a new form, and often begins to play and rejoice.

The moment you truly understand your parts (yourself) and release your inner pain. Your life will no longer be indecisive and unhappy; instead, you will lead it from within, from your inner self. You will no longer do things just to please others; you will no longer be a victim of external circumstances and other people. You will start creating and living your life the way you have always wished deep down.

healing the wounded part

leading your life from the self

“Until you make the unconscious conscious,
it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”

- carl Gustav Jung

how will your life change?

  • You will find understanding and compassion for yourself and others.

  • Your decisions will be made from your heart/from you, not from fear and worries.

  • You will become more joyful, balanced and compassionate.

  • You will start living the life you have always wanted from the bottom of your heart.

  • You will find yourself.

  • Your emotions and fear will no longer rule your life.

  • You will become more and more self-confident and less vulnerable to external circumstances and people.

  • You will improve your overall health.

  • Your life will be more conscious.

What MY CLIENTS SAY
ABOUT WORKING WITH ME

Working with Šárka has been a deeply enriching experience. Her gentle guidance, empathetic presence, and commitment to IFS principles create such a safe and nurturing space for exploration and healing. Šárka’s ability to bring her gentle presence into each session is remarkable; she listens with both heart and wisdom, allowing me to feel seen, heard, and understood. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking transformative and compassionate therapy.

- Kim Wellens

Couples therapist and the owner of the retreat center in South France

https://assaladou.org/

Working with Šárka has been amazing. I was feeling stuck on a negative experience I’d had a few years ago, and couldn’t seem to move forward properly with my life. In my sessions with Šárka I discovered parts of myself I hadn’t met before, and afterwards I felt so much more safe in myself. I thought it was going to be really uncomfortable and hard, but it was actually sooo joyful! I’m excited to keep exploring my inner world now, thanks Šárka!

- josh v roberts

Writer, healer, mentor & Speaker

https://www.joshvroberts.com